What is the relationship between self-esteem and a positive attitude?
One of the foundational elements essential to a child’s “maturation and socialization … during all stages of childhood…”  is self-esteem. In fact, Webster defines self-esteem as: “belief in oneself.”
Belief in and feeling good about oneself are the positive emotions that increase through involvement in positive experiences. The earliest and most common form of these experiences for younger children is play.
Play enables a child to try new things. In the process, a child makes friends and communicates with others.
When children play with each other, they take risks, and they recognize and acknowledge each others’ successes while developing self-confidence. Through trial and error, they build upon these successes and acquire the flexibility and perseverance they need to tackle the highs and lows of daily living.
Children learn to recognize and respect their growing abilities. The end product of this effort is — they believe they can.
The idea that positive emotions allow a child to “broaden and build” skills (physical, social, and creative) that will benefit him or her later in life was identified by Barbara Frederickson, a positive psychology researcher at the University of North Carolina. Frederickson’s study found that negative emotions have an overall negative effect on a person’s future choices while positive emotions “broaden” the perception of what is possible for them. Later, a child can use them as resources from which to “build” new skills.
When a child believes he or she will have more positive outcomes than failures, the resulting skills will carry over from the playground into the classroom. The child develops a positive “affect” or character, over time.
In a study reviewing “Optimism and Burnout in Competitive Sports,” scientists indicate that having a positive affect “favors health.” They found a number of areas where a “positive affect” impacted outcomes.
It “improve(s) strategies of confrontation”; “favors a more complete and flexible cognitive process” and “helps a person evaluate the present and look for better opportunities in the future.” In general, a healthy, optimistic attitude helps individuals manage their expectations and feelings about their performance.
Healthy self-esteem reduces rates of depression and contributes to self-love. A child with a joyful spirit and mind is prepared to solve challenging problems without fear. His or her positive feelings create future successes!
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